Materialistic World , Dont we Love it

Why is the world so focused on physical assets- bank-balance, material-possessions, external beauty/body/cleavage...? What's the value of good thoughts, clear heart, inner beauty & values like honesty, discipline etc. today? What is important to you?

So the question is why,Well there is a straight answer that we have become selfish at least for our own good sake.Majority of working middle class is always after bank balance because they if don't have it , they wont be able to rise up the ladder of social security.Indian mentality is just to increase your bank balance so that your children can lead a happy life.But do all of us are like that , The answer is no , But the majority is surely running after bank balance.

Now about external beauty and cleavage , The answer is again simple Mean have been for ages loved ogling at physical assets.Men when they talk to women , they actually start talking with Boobs till the time they are forced to deviate from the mean path of their eyes till your boobs,So Just accept it ,Men do love doing it.But again there are limits and tricks on how they do it.Some do it cleverly , some do it randomly and some do it ease.But do all do it , No they don't its again just the majority.

Now the value of good thoughts , clear heart and inner beauty is there but its only limited to a small fraction of orthodox clad people who have lost interest in the materialistic world, or they have enough money to survive with it.Corruption is everywhere , some deal with it , Some don't but again the majority of people always go for the workaround , So honesty and discipline has actually lost its sheen , its the new age world where success is everything.

So is it right , no its not , they why do we all do it , because the other one is doing it.So Its just about how the society grows up and make itself a good society.The change can not come drastically over night.The change has to comer gradually , I can only hope , We do away with corruption , Rest all can come and grow with time.

Ghost Part 2

This is a True Story which happened in Delhi in Year 2014.The Names have been Changed.Here is the Short Part 1.

Now Both Mrs and Mr Chopra agreed to the point that something was wrong with Charu.They started keeping at eye on Charu but the money still kept disappearing even when Charu was not at home.But all that went missing was only cash.Mrs Chopra used to take sleeping pills to sleep but she stopped taking them thinking that might be the cause of the depression she was now going into.She took Mr Chopra into confidence and went to one Guy who would perform the JHAD FUNK at her place,He came there did that JHAD FUNK and nothing happened for next ten days,

After ten days again the money disappeared,But they were not sure weather Charu was at home during that time or not , Both the parents asked charu is something was going wrong.Suddenly Mrs Chopra picked up charu;s mobile phone and saw some messages and notes shared between her friend which were in Urdu.Mrs Chopra again warned her doing that again.Mrs Chopra kept a close eye on Charu now.The next day Mrs Chopra took Charu's mobile phone again and found out there were an sms which read I am going right now but if your parents will disturb me I will come back again.She called on that number and It was a Sikh Guys Newly bought SIM which he started using from past couple of days.He refused to agree that he was sending SMS to a kid as he was happily married.He agreed for any Investigation.Mrs and Mr Chopra could not do anything , It was just an sms,

The next night Charu was beating up Sonal her younger sister and spoke in a voice which was a mix of at least 3 voices and saying to leave her alone.Mrs Chopra applied all her strength to calm her .down ,When Charu came to senses she could not remember anything but slept in her mothers Lap.

Both Mrs and Mr Chopra were  now tensed , They went to the Baba who was famous for catching spirits and getting rid from them in Delhi.He applied all his strength but could not come to any conclusion , he just said there is no influence of any bad spirit on any of them.But he said nothing will happen now as it might be a bad omen which he has cleared now.Ten days passed and nothing happened but the money started disappearing again after ten days,Even when Charu was at home it disappeared and even when she was not at home they disappeared.So The Chopra were sure that she was not doing it.
But they could not believe few things , The ATM incident , The VOICE incident and the Money disappearing even when no was at home.

Mrs Chopra had done everything possible now.The Baba's and the priests were of now help now.She had tried all of them.Now what they do is keep the money in the bank and all the ATMs are kept with Mr Chopra all the time , They don't keep cash at home.Even the smallest amount of money keeps on disappearing every now and then.

Here is the Short Part 1. Do you have a Ghost Experience? Do you wanna share it? Well now is the time :-)

Ghost

This is a True Story which happened in Delhi.The Names have been Changed.

Charu and Sonal , the two sweet sisters loved their younger brother who was still couple of years old.Charu was to give her 10th exams and Sonal were to appear in her 8th std exams.Mr Chopra was staying very happy in his house at the a Delhi Colony.He was a property dealer by profession and his wife Mrs Chopra was happy handling all the PGs they have given on rent at the ground floor.They were earning good and were very happy.

On Monday Mrs Chopra had a fight with her maid as about 15000Rs were missing from the drawer and no one else was at home when they disappeared except Mrs Choprs and the Maid , So the maid was blamed and was asked to return the money or face the police.She pleaded a lot but continued saying that she had not commited the crime.An FIR was filed and she was kept in Jail by the local police.

On Tuesday Mrs Chopra got some vegetables from the market and put the cash in the drawer and there was no one in the house except the little Aryan her 2 year old kid and herself.She locked the door and went to sleep.When she got up , the money was not in the drawer.She was confused as well as shocked.

On Wednesday when the 3 kids were sleeping and Mrs Chopra was cooking in the Kitchen , She Did something strange , she Put some cash in the small temple at home and tied them with the red thread.In the evening when she came to see the cash , The count of the notes had decreased but there were no signs of who did that.Neither the thread nor anything else were even touched.

She had to tell this to her husband.In the evening when she told all this to his husband , he laughed it off and said she might have forgotten the count of the notes every time because the kids were well behaved to do anything silly like that.Later that day while returning from home Mr Chopra Noticed that 10,000 rs have been reduced from his daily cash counter.He was shocked.

Mrs Chopra had to do something now to stop it.She starting discussing it with neighbors but they also laughed it off.She told everything to her mother she was also confused.Later in the evening on neighbor came and reminded her of the incident where she has asked one lady to vacate her PG forcibly as she was unable to pay the rent,So she might be responsible for some JADU TONA.Mr and Mrs Chopra were both not in favor of doing any JHAD FUNK so they slept that night.

Next morning was terrible as they both fought on some petty issue.The strange thing is that they never fought in all these years of happily married life.This thing was now increasing.They were regularly fighting now on small things.They even kept an eye on both the girls as they also came under scanner of their mom.

One Month passed by.The money and the cash notes were still disappearing from their home.One Day when she checked the Mobile phone of Charu she noticed something written in URDU which was strange for a Punjabi Girl.When Mrs Chopra inquired ,Charu Replied that this will save them from the Bad spirit which was in the house.Mrs Chopra was socked and bashed Charu and warned her of using any Urdu or Kalmas.

The thing which happened Next was strange.1500 Rs were taken from an ATM near their house.So they asked the Bank guys to show the CCTV footage so that they can finally catch the so called ghost.When they saw the footage they were shocked and frightened.It was charu in the CCTV footage who was taking out cash from the ATM But the strange point was the time , At the time when the money was withdrawn from the ATM at the same time Charu was at home with his mother.

This confirmed that the Chopra's were in trouble.Now Mr.Chopra also believed that some paranormal activity was going on.

Here is the Short Part 2. Do you have a Ghost Experience? Do you wanna share it? Well now is the time :-)

I hate Charity

On a personal note I would like to start by saying I hate charity, I shoo away beggars and babas.But As a Hindu Nationalist I should not do that Right.No Its not about Hinduism or any other religion , Because all religions talk about charity and stuff.Ok Now to the Topic , Are we really doing empowerment by doing charity.I always have the opinion that If I am helping someone who is trying to do something then I am right and If I am just donating something to someone who is not even trying then its purely wrong.

Yes I am of the view that the NGO's should rather be concentrating on skill development than just helping the poor which actually is not helping them but making them dependent on you.I am happy to donate clothes and food to the needy or probably I will make the poor kids have some food or Rides But I will never give them Cash.I dont know But I dont feel like giving them Cash.Now I have the same logic for NGO's , I have never donated any cash to any NGO.I have always made sure that I have donated for example books , pens , pencils or food directly to the needy who is or may be not associated with the NGOs.

I guess we all should think on the same lines, No I am not being judgmental or forcing my thoughts I am just being logical about ourselves giving more importance to skill development rather then just helping them on monitory grounds.I guess we all should make sure that weather we donate or not but If we do We should make sure that we are helping a cause or helping a skill get developed rather than Just donating and forgetting about it and think that our job is done.

I know some people are under privileged but that does not mean we should start giving them money , Instead we should help the needy go to school , We should help them develop their skills.We should help them gain knowledge so that they can grow in respective fields and the same applies to the NGO's.I am not saying every NGO is not concentrating on developing skills nor I am saying every situation is worth skill development.But If we all start thinking in a way which I have suggested we can build a better tomorrow.

This is again written for the Indispire topic : Charity or Empowerment? Are charitable donations to feed and house the poor really the way out of the mire of poverty or do NGOs need to focus more on skill development? Should we as donors be more proactive rather than merely donating money?

10 Things to do Before I die | Bucket List

Now is my bucket list as of Now ,The bucket list again depends on Mood and Time,The Bucket list can change anytime , any day without any prior notice,It fully depends on the amount of greed,selfishness,self obsession and craziness in my mind at the time of compiling the bucket list.This list is not intended to hurt or please anyone , But If anyone gets offended then please try going to hell and come back ie Drive your four wheeler in and around Delhi and Gurgaon.

1.I want to own a bike(Again),I have driven Bajaj Pulsar all my life , I want to buy a Bullet one day.I hate driving my Car in the Traffic Havoc we have everyday at Delhi NCR.

2.Take Parents to world Tour , Take my Wife to Eiffel tower , I have been there without her so that the catch.And Take my Kid to Disneyland because we have been there without him.

3.I already own a website which help freshers to get 

job information and direct referrals with career , resume and Interview Tips , I want to make it Big , Real Big and still provide services Free.

4.Want to develop at least 21 websites Which I want to be very popular.Wont share the Ideas.

5.Write another Book and sell at least 500 Copies.Well You already did not know that Desire v/s Destiny is the book I wrote .Come on.

6.Keep on donating clothes from the earnings of my website , When Sachin Tendulkar retired all the kids outside this famous temples were wearing "Sachin is my God, Cricket is my Religion" T shirts donated by me.I want to keep doing it every year,I hope I don't change my mind.

7.I want to get the bad cholesterol out of my body , I want to die only with Good cholesterol in my body ,I don't want to die of any disease.I want to work towards that, I know I am too young to talk like that But I guess I have to make it a habit to improve my body.

8.I have met Sachin Tendulkar , I Now Only want to meet Amitabh Bachchan.Do I have to write why I want to do that, No !! Right.

9.Remain a farmer for life.

10.Do something for the nation , Starting with Saving Water and other resources.

This is again for Indispire the topic this week is Lets post our Bucket List: Ten Things You Would Want To Do, no let me rephrase, TEN THINGS YOU MUST DO BEFORE YOU DIE or else you would feel like a loser on a death bed? lets share and motivate each other about life. Lets Dream about life, your life.

The Book Bucket

This is again written for the Indispire Idea of the week which is "Submit a list of your 10 favorite books with reasons why they made it to your list. Let us try to complete a circle and compile a list of books we yet have to pick.

So here is my list.These are the books I have Read Many Time.

1.Mein Kampf by Adolf Hitler : Reason is as the name suggests I am impressed by the struggle of the man who virtually ruled the world.The way the book is written and then translated to English is actually awesome and inspiring to say the least.You actually come to know what went inside that great mind who ruled mercilessly. It.It more about his political ideology.

2.Unix Concepts And Applications - By Sumitabha Das : This is the first book , any Unix enthusiast would read and would re read and re read even after 10 years of first reading it.I wont say much about it as I still read it when I am confused.And Yes A file is File is a File.

3.Desire v/s Destiny : This is the first book I Authored which is based on short stories and Romantic Poems inspired by real life incidents , This was the learning curve of my writing career, I love this book and I have grown up to accept that It contained many mistakes.But this one is surely that I read every time I get a chance.

4.Train To Pakistan (1956) by Khushwant Singh : The novel about the partition time by none other than khushwant singh.The violence and the Riots all written in a manner which will give you goose bumps.

Now Below is the list of books which I want to read :

5.The Immortals of Meluha (Triology)(Amish Tripathi)

6.Midnight's Children : Salman Rushdie.

7.Girl Trade : Chloe Thurlow.

8.Sachin Tendulkars Biography : To be released by end of September 2014.

9.Please Suggest 

10.Please Suggest

The Candle March

At Home : 

Rajan :Hey Mom I am on TV look Ryan is also there with that poster , The one with that Gandhi Topi , is me.

Mom : My Son , I am so Proud of you , But what were you doing there at India Gate, Did India won the World Cup Again.And whats written on that Poster.

Rajan : Come on Mom,You are such an Ignorant women , i was there just to support that Girl who got Raped.It was the candle march.And Its written Respect the Women.

Mom :Oh wow !! My sweetheart , you are such a bright child.

Rajan : Anyways Mom I am off to Tuition,I might get late.

Mom : Mera Bachcha !! Mwah !!

At Friend's Place :

Ryan : Hey dude , your Picture with the poster has got 102 likes on Facebook , you are even more popular that Richa , whose each selfie gets at least 90 likes.

Rajan L: Yo Bro , your Friend so Popular huh ! What are you doing on FB at this time.

Ryan : I am still chatting with Richa !

Rajan : Wow!! come on and she still believes in your fake profile and that too with a fake picture.Its been three days.

Ryan : Yeah bro 

Rajan : Cool Man , Hey than I will leave for tuition alone then.

Ryan : Tuition , Stop lying to me, Are you again going to chase that girl till her gym and stand outside her gym and watch from the glass windows.Is not she the same girl we chased down after that Candle March shit. 

Rajan : Yeah ,Shes the same, But yesterday she stopped and warned me that If I chase her again , she will complain to the police.

Ryan : Bloody shit , so tuition today right.

Rajan : Do you think I am so easy to get rid off , I am going to puncture the tyre of her vehicle while she would be at gym.

Ryan : Carry On Bro !! And yeah by the way I am going to ask for Richa's Pictures today ,without clothes , Come in evening I will tell you the full story.

Rajan : Cool Bro !!

Well That's what happening in this two faced world.Candle March for the social media.Eve teasing at will and cyber crime with no hesitation.Well As a matter of fact if you think you cant be tracked after doing cyber crime you are Wrong.Also If you think that burning candles will help the society grow up , Its just a HOAX , Just grow over it and change should come from with in.and most Important thing the only way that an eve teaser can be caught is that if the passers by who witness him indulging in such a cowardly act react and act. One cannot wait for the police to be on the prowl at every street corner all the time awaiting acts of eve teasing to happen in front of their eyes and then they take action, the sad fact is that not many eve teasers are bought to book they are just everywhere roaming free.

The police see through the seemingly innocent pleas of an eve teaser and take stern action against these shameless offenders, but that is only when the matter comes to their notice or eve teasers are brought to them by public action.Now its on the society on how they act and react,Police cant be everywhere.

This is again written for Indispire Topic :People conveniently ignore a girl in distress or an accident victim on the road, but would enthusiastically march with candles in hand for a cause. Why?

Silence

After they left 
I was sitting and watching My self in the mirror
I was sad and was looking with some horror
I wanted to put an end to my life 
I was sitting and was holding a knife
I wanted to cut my wrist 
I had lost the hope to exist

But I thought if there is anything I can do
So I went to the Police station without any further ado
They asked me from where it all began
and what was I doing in the Rain
Why was I wearing a Skirt
and that too with a revealing shirt

Questions like did they first undress
or they started to press
From where did they first insert
From where was I getting Hurt
Instead of Registering the Report
They Repeatedly insisted why my clothes were short

At-last they asked if that was my first time
Like instead of the rapists I have done some crime
I looked at the wrist and the knife
because I know Now I cant be anyone's wife

I am looking at the wrists and the knife
I am going to end my life


silence prevails.........

They Smile,I Smile

Happy Janamashtami to everyone , Its Lord Krishna Birthday.

I am poor at these Photography Apps

From Wikipedia : Krishna Janmashtami (Devanagari कृष्ण जन्माष्टमी kṛṣṇa janmāṣṭamī), also known as Krishnashtami, Saatam Aatham,Gokulashtami, Ashtami Rohini, Srikrishna Jayanti, Sree Jayanti or sometimes simply as Janmashtami, is an annual celebration of the birth of the Hindu deity Krishna, the eighth avatar of Vishnu.^[4]

I took my 2 years old son to the temple and saw the rides which they have just put outside the temple encroached upon the roads as they always do which had actually resulted in Traffic Chaos.I love My India I said to myself.I was not surprised when I saw my son was more than happy to hop on to one of them without buying the tickets.I got the ticket for him and he started enjoying the rides alone as it was still evening and the crowds had just started to come in.

As Ruhan(My Son) was enjoying the rides , I was trying to catch up on my memory of my childhood when I used to enjoy these little rides.But something was different.I was not sure what.But I was standing and waiting for the ride to get over.As Always there are always some small kids just outside the temple who ask for money or just food.But today one kid came and asked If I could just make them enjoy the ride as well.It was a group of 5 kids.

I paid for them and they enjoyed the ride alongside my son.It was just so heart touching to see how they shouted and made noises in joy,It made me smile too.I personally don't believe in charity , neither do I donate ,But I like helping and this was may the first time I paid for the underprivileged to get the kid's rides.It made me happy and I smiled from Inside.

I have decided now that Instead of doing charity and donating I will make at-least 5 kids happy on every occasion like this,I hope I am doing just the right thing.Happy Janamashtami to all.This is for the Indispire Topic When was the last time that you did something good for others and that brought a genuine smile at your face?#benevolence.And This is again a top post at Indiblogger

Relation Between Indiblogger,Top Post,Votes.Comments,Traffic and Moneytizing

First I am not Talking about Other blogging Communities.I am only Talking about Indiblogger and the Questions which arises after some one gets high votes and is on home page but is that what you really want ? , Does the famous tag on Indiblogger guaranties you regular traffic? Here is What I think

1.My Other Blog Which I am not giving attention now a days still get traffic due to SEO and labels.And I hav enot shared anything on that blog/Indiblogger from past 8 Months.

2.Contest and Indispire Posts do get high votes for me as well around 40-50.My last three posts(NOW 4 including this one) are tops posts but they did not get even 100 Votes.They are bound to get votes which is not equal to traffic mind you.

3.Getting onto homepage is completely different thing as it depends on timing of the posts I have seen a post with 19 Votes in top 10 as well.So Again Not a big Question.

Inter - Religion marriage still taboo among indians

Inter - Religion marriage still taboo among Indians,This is the easiest Topic to talk about in India.But yes the opinion will vary from every single individual.Even the movies in India are actually thinking about the topic.A partner Choice is very difficult for everyone to make with the caste system in India.And Its very difficult to go against and think what would you be doing after you go against the society.

In India until the 19th century what was followed was the legacy system which was related to surnames and castes.For example A baniya son will get married in his caste system and so does the son of a priest which were considered to get married with in their caste.But the situation was more tricky and is still quite dangerous If we talk about Inter religion Marriages.

Bad Bad Bad

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Well Lets just talk about the bad things we do ,Not really things we do intentionally  but also the things we do knowingly.I am listing down things which I would love to get India rid off as soon as possible.

1.Spitting : Spitting Tobacco after chewing it for ages in every corner of the world we live in is the first and most disgusting thing I would say we Indians do.Go to any apartment common stairs and you will find the red stains of pan and Tobacco.Spitting at public places is just a casual habit for us.Ths is madness

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2.Pee Pee Everywhere : Don't we do it , Yes We Indian Males so this shit everywhere , well quite literally.We are just habitual of doing it , too casual ,We don't even think twice , Well We don't even think that it can be bad,When ever we get the pressure we just wee a corner or a wall or any tree and relax ourselves, How convenient.

Old Enough to Rape , Old Enough to be Hanged | Hang The Rapists

In My Honest opinion Rapists should be hanged ,I know Human rights activists won't agree with me with this and when I will say even hang the juvenile Rapist they will shout against me with their loudest voice.But Let me tell you If they are old enough to do Rape they are old enough to be hanged.

What happened in nirbahaya's Rape case is known to the world ,

The victim’s mother said: “Earlier, we were praying with folded hands before doctors and God for our daughter’s life. Now we are praying before JJB to convict her assaulter and award maximum sentence.”

The girl died in a Singapore hospital on December 29 2012.

She was asked if the maximum sentence of three years under the Juvenile Justice Act, if awarded, is commensurate with the crime.

"We are not bothered about minority or majority status of the accused. All we want is justice," the mother of the 23-year-old December 16 gang-rape victim said on Saturday , ahead of the Juvenile Justice Board's verdict in the case involving a minor.

That was simply inhuman, but still the law of the land is preventing the juvenile to be punished.I would like to ask the human and child rights activists and would like to question the United Nations rule that considering the trauma of rape is enormous and taking into the consideration the miserable life the women has to live should be criteria enough to hang the Rapist.Why Prevent the living devils , they should be taught a lesson.

I agree with Nirbhaya's Mother , why would the court be worried about the minority of the accused , they should be worried about the minority of human ness they had.

Nirbhaya's mother said, "We have heard that he will get a maximum of three-year sentence, this is really upsetting for us. It will be a life long regret for us that our daughter's murderer was alive."

Even United Nations agrees to the term of only 3 years to the juvinile which is simple insane.How can they justify a rape then murder and that too in such a inhuman way that no one can even imagine.If the rapists wont get hanged the society which is far from being human wont learn any lesson specially these phychos.

In My view all Rapists even if they are minors should be hanged.I know that there might be views which might say that the new laws can be misused but I can only say that the judiciary wont hang people without proving the guilty , If we cant trust our judiciary then there is no need for any law.If there is law of the land that should be respected.There are people who would say that we are right winged people who would want he death penalty just because we are right winged but NO Its not like that we are just demanding justice for an inhuman crime only if proven guilty.We should be open to human treatments but we should not let inhumanity grow like this.